7 Destructive Habits of Incompetent People

WARNING! If you want to have a fantastic life, never engage yourself in these 7 deadly habits that incompetent people do.

NUMBER 1 - They Think, Say, & Do Negative Things.

Yup. They see problems in every opportunity.

They complain that the sun is too hot. They cursed the rain for ruining their plans for the day. They blame the wind for ruining their hair.

They think that everyone is against them. They see the problems but never the solutions.

Every little bit of difficulty is exaggerated to the point oftragedy. They regard failures as catastrophes. They becomediscouraged easily instead of learning from their mistakes.

They never seem to move forward because they're always afraidto come out of their comfort zones.

NUMBER 2 - They Act Before They Think.

They move based on instinst or impulse. If they see somethingthey like, they buy at once without any second thought.

Then they see something better. They regret & curse for not able to take advantage of the bargain.

Then they spend & spend again until nothing's left. Theydon't think about the future. What they're after is the pleasure they will experience at present.

They don't think about the consequenses. Those who engage in unsafe sex, criminality, and the like are included inthis group.

NUMBER 3 - They Talk Much More Than They Listen

They want to be the star of the show. So they always engagein talks that would make them heroes, even to the point oflying.

Oftentimes they are not aware that what they're saying is notsensible anymore.

When other people advise them, they close their ears because they're too proud to admit their mistakes.

In their mind they're always correct. They reject suggestions because that will make them feel inferior.

NUMBER 4 - They Give Up Easily

Successful people treat failures as stepping stones to success.

Incompetent ones call it quits upon recognizing the first signsof failure.

At first, they may be excited to start an endeavor. But thenthey lose interest fairly quickly, especially when theyencounter errors.

Then they go & search for a new one. Same story & same results.Incompetent people don't have the persistence to go on and fulfill their dreams.



NUMBER 5 - They Try to Bring Others Down To Their Level

Incompetent people envy other successful individuals. Instead of working hard to be like them, these incompetent ones spreadrumors and try every dirty trick to bring them down.

They could've asked these successful ones nicely. But no, they'retoo proud. They don't want to ask advise. Moreover, they're too negative to accomplish anything.

NUMBER 6 - They Waste Their Time

They don't know what to do next. They may just be contented oneating, getting drunk, watching TV, or worse, staring at theblank wall with no thoughts whatsoever to improve their lives.

It's perfectly fine to enjoy once in a while. But time should bemanaged efficiently in order to succeed. There should be aproper balance between work & pleasure.

NUMBER 7 - They Take the Easy Way Out

If there are two roads to choose from, incompetent people would choose the wider road with less rewards than the narrower road with much better rewards at the end.

They don't want any suffering or hardship. They want a good life.

What these people don't know is that what you reap is what yousow. Efforts & action will not go unnoticed.

If only they would be willing to sacrifice a little, they would be much better off.

Successful people made it through trials & error. They nevergive up. They are willing to do everything necessary to achieve what they aspire for in life.

Michael Lee is the author of "How To Be A Red Hot Persuasion Wizard...In 20 Days Or Less," an ebook designed to easily seduce others, fully improve your relationships, multiply your profits, win negotiations, and help you attain all the desired freedom and power you could ever dream of. Go to http://www.20daypersuasion.com and grab a sample chapter.

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